One step at a time

It can be confusing to experience change.Love for the first time,for example.Prior to this ,you were used to affection from family and pets.Then that someone walks into your life and everything is just warmer,meaningful and different.
Then you grow up and start to see your world beyond face value.You see the true line between beautiful people,enemies and beautiful enemies.
First comes  a party then comes the hangover.Always.Because life is about stages.Change is the conveyor from one stage to the next.The brave ones handle change and move forward in life.The weaklings linger on,and everything always stays the same.Usually things change for the better,holding on to drowned pasts will only drown you as well.It's total energy drain.

Speed is vital.Be patient to experience each stage of life.It saves you from many future mistakes.Skipping any stage,is depriving yourself from being knowledgeable.You will pay for it in the future.
Also strive to be you.Strive to love you.Much more will have its place in your life.If you feel hate,you feel exactly that.If someone is hateful towards you,that is what you are worth to them. No debate!Don't force love out of places where it is nonexistent.
Think about the relationships that end after 7 or even 20 years of love.I believe that these would have ended two years or less into the relationship .Everyone likes to sugar coat the truth.Most people would rather run from painful fact that their 'soul mate' has imperfections that you cannot put up with.We ride on in the hope for change.A drowning man,drowns you with him.
 You cannot wait for a person to change into what you desire them to be.They are changing,growing up perhaps.You have already changed.It is a future stage for them and a past stage for you.The idea in life is to move forward never backwards.





Have a blast appreciating change and living life.!