GIVING GIFTS ON VALENTINES

Valentine’s Day… I come with so much love, glamour, accolade and pleasure. Call me Beautiful or Invaluable if you like. In this rough, competitive and fast revolving society, don’t we just need something to brighten up our lives? Don’t we just need someone to make us smile at the end of it all? Making someone feel important  is the idea. It can be your family, friend, workmate, neighbor, doctor, pet…Blow up the list. What better way to achieve this than giving gifts!

Not now,of course.2014 awaits.

 

I am felt by four categories of people: Enthusiasts, Influenced Believers, Members, and Massacres of love. They compose the 79 percentage of people who give gifts on Valentine’s Day give gifts as illustrated by http://statisticbrain.com/valentines-day-statistics

Enthusiasts of Valentine’s do believe in Valentine’s Day. They haven’t been lucky enough to get someone who will sweep them off their feet though. They give themselves gifts. They are drawn to appreciate this day through peer influence, desire to fit in or simply high self esteem.

Believers can be compared to Christians. They believe in a God they have never seen. These do not understand what Valentine’s really means and what the fuss is always about. However they do something because there is someone in their life who really adores Valentine’s Day. This ‘someone’ will need a gift.

Members of this day of love are the committed celebrators. They go all out and plan for the day even months prior. It is like Christmas to them, I tell you!

Massacres of love! That percentage of us with black hearts and frozen souls. Hear no love see no love feel no love. People become emotionally unavailable for one too many reasons. Pain flips the tenderness of any heart. This lot runs so fast just about or during Valentine’s Day. Something always comes up! They have to rush somewhere out of town all of a sudden.

Well not so fast party paupers aka massacres of love. There is so much pleasure in giving gifts on Valentine’s Day .If you gave presents and attached little or no meaning to the deed, now is the time to maximize appreciation. Invest on giving gifts on Valentine’s Day because:

If tomorrow never comes…

Someone will be gone without knowing how much they meant to you. All the love you have had in your heart will burn you to a frazzle. It will torture and torment you. You can only sulk in regret. The sun sets and rises, so do people come and go. Life has been busy for you. Keeping up with work and business trips have been your agenda round the clock. Let Valentine’s break the tide. It is only valid from midnight of 13^th February to the noon of 14^th February! 12 hours can’t be too much of a hustle when it comes to being with someone you intend to have in your life for all times sake. Be present, to hold and cherish and be the gift, at least. If 15^th February never comes, 14^th will have spoken enough.

Words alone aren’t enough.

Love excites and strengthens. It carries such power of large magnitude. It surpasses human understanding. Most times only gifts can explain how you really feel. Pictures are worth a thousand words so are gifts. Shop wisely and patiently. Shop internationally. Try http://www.giftsnideas.com/gifts/online-gifts-kenya. Do not just sit there formulating excuses as to why you could not do something for someone on Valentine’s. Do something!

This could be the start of something new.

You have been yelling at your work mates all year .You have insulted your sibling. You are guilty of neglecting your family. You borrowed your friends’ clothes, messed them up or even lost them. Your children are deprived of happiness when you enter the house. Let us just call you the prophet of doom. Valentine’s Day is a good start. Swerve into a brand new kind of you with style. Show up at their door definitely not empty handed. Buy reconciliation gifts. Valentine’s Day will be a memorable pace setter. Walk back into their lives and leave a presence.

 People are very competitive.

Competition in men is performance –based Women are more of whose life is more attractive. It is meant to show that I am better than you.Keep your spouse worth rank on Valentine’s Day or else you will be sleeping in the guest room for a while. Save yourself the agony, stress and buy something good. Whether we like it or not…life and love is now about a give and take agenda. Material possessions are the trade items. The bigger percentage of you defines ‘love’ for someone by their power to provide for you. Not just provide but place you at a level where you can fit in and/or beat your friends.

It’s a source of blessing.

 Giving a gift on a special day extends the much love you have for yourself to your neighbor. This per se gets you a firsthand reward from God. Chocolates, greeting cards, flowers especially the Red roses, all have a special meaning in the history of Valentine’s Day. However strive to walk out of the normalcy. Do not feel shy! Many other gifts symbolize different yet special things. Get objects made of precious stone such as Pearls, Hematite, and Rose Quartz. They revert negative energy and much more.Check http://www.wicca-spirituality.com/gem-stones-meaning.html.Try the Jade Nephrite Elephant carvings that have a sacred meaning.

It can’t hurt to adore.

 Regardless of age gap. Pass the warmth that laces the spirit of giving. Show affection and let someone feel like the world has none other like them. Kick out desolation! Eliminate doubt in your loved ones who may be feeling that you do not value them as much anymore. Prepare a good meal. Dress in a sexy way. Go out for a movie and take your mother with you may be. Let her talk to the characters all the while but go to bed the happiest toothless lady. You know how the aged are!

A leader leads by example.

Aren’t you so tired of being criticized by your friends for walking around with the biggest teddy bear on sale? Be the change you want to see. Preach with me people! Give much to everyone around you. Advertise on social media spots where to get the best deals and gifts.

Many like to say that someone who does not love you every day cannot possibly pretend to love you on Valentine’s. Hogwash! It could be the beginning of change. You may be the type that says the little sweet things and buys little gifts every other day. Valentine’s is big…buying big gifts will feel extraordinary. Enthusiasts and Members…keep waving the flag, raise it higher even. Believers, you cannot sit on the fence forever. Hop over to my side…It is heaven on earth here .Massacres of Love, reconcile with the fact that love does exist. Open the doors and begin by giving gift on Valentine’s Day. Now that I have shown you the importance, it shouldn’t be much of a task.

Love and enjoy being loved!    (PUBLISHED:http://issuu.com/nairobiaiesec/docs/cb5)